The Uncommon Man

The Uncommon Man

Biblical masculinity, leadership, and what it means to be a man in an era that’s trying to redefine it out of existence.

The Man in the Mirror Nobody Talks About

I have met men who were completely different people depending on the room. At church, humble and soft-spoken. At work, sharp and decisive. At home, checked out and unavailable. Around their boys, loud and reckless. Each version carefully adjusted for the audience. It is exhausting to watch. I can only imagine how exhausting it is...

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What Nobody Told You About Being the Head

Everybody wants to talk about headship until it is time to actually carry it. Leading a house is not a title. It is not a position that comes with a crown and automatic respect. It is weight. Daily, unglamorous, nobody-is-clapping weight. It means you are the first one accountable when things go wrong. Not the...

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The Masculinity I Was Taught Wasn’t Biblical

When I talk about masculinity, people often assume I’ve always had it. They assume that because I wrote a book about it, I must have been born with some natural understanding of what it means to be a man. That I’ve always walked confidently in it. That I’m speaking from a place of lifelong mastery.

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